From birth to death, God has orchestrated human life to progress through phases. A helpful analogy for me has been seeing the stages of life as mirroring the seasons of nature—spring, summer, fall, and winter. Spring is a season of new beginnings, and, for humans, it parallels birth, toddlers, and the teenage years. Summer is a phase of growth for young adults. Fall is the season of maturity, success, and achievement. For man, it is analogous to complete adulthood. Winter begins a time of loss. The harvest is in, plants die back, some animals hibernate, and nature rests. Nature completes its cycle and awaits spring’s arrival. However, for us, when we enter our winter season as older adults, it is the beginning of our end on earth. One’s resources begin eroding. Physical and cognitive abilities weaken. Aging can involve loss of social status, loss of self-esteem, and a sense of worth. Someone said, “Our batteries start draining dry.” Another commented, “I used to have the strength of a horse; now it is more like a little donkey.”
Benjamin Franklin asserted there are two certainties in life: you must pay taxes, and you must die. However, you do not have to pay taxes, although there are consequences. But death is inevitable for everyone. “It is appointed for men to die once” (Heb 9:27). Dying is a natural part of the process of living. Yet, embracing our winter season is often difficult. It compares to the culture shock missionaries face—feelings of disorientation experienced when we are suddenly subjected to an unfamiliar culture and way of life. Seniors will experience various degrees of shock.
For me, the transition to senior status has been nothing like I imagined. Although my postgraduate studies were in culture and how to adjust, I have confronted plenty of unexpected and challenging adjustments. One difficulty, I took my dad as my role model. I remember he cut up an oak tree, loaded the bed of his truck, and brought it to me on the same day—he was 80 years old. Seasons will always continue as long as the earth exists (Gen 8:22); however, seasonal conditions are not constant. Sometimes, winters can be frigid, or they may be mild, or rainy, or dry. My conditions differed from my Dad. COVID-19 and Covid Long completely altered the situation of my winter season.
Solomon experienced his winter season and wrote what he encountered, (Ecclesiastes 12:1-11 Mess. & [Amp]).
1-2 Honor and enjoy your Creator [before you grow old and say, “Life is not pleasant anymore.”]
Before your vision dims and the world blurs
And the winter years keep you close to the fire.
3-5 In old age, your body no longer serves you so well.
Muscles slacken, grip weakens, joints stiffen.
The shades are pulled down on the world.
You can’t come and go at will. Things grind to a halt.
The hum of the household fades away.
You are wakened now by bird-song.
Hikes to the mountains are a thing of the past.
Even a stroll down the road has its terrors.
Your hair turns apple-blossom white,
[and you drag along without energy like a dying grasshopper,
and the caperberry no longer inspires sexual desire.]
Yes, you’re well on your way to eternal rest,
While your friends make plans for your funeral.
6-7 Life, lovely while it lasts, is soon over.
Life as we know it, precious and beautiful, ends.
The body is put back in the same ground it came from.
The spirit returns to God, who first breathed it.
8 It’s all smoke, nothing but smoke.
The Quester says that everything’s smoke.
The phrase you’re as old as you feel was made up by someone in their twenties. My wife often says, “Getting old is a bummer!” After reading the conclusions of Solomon about losses related to growing old we might say the same. But scripture shows each season has its own unique beauty, including our winter. Agatha Christie wrote, “If you are still breathing, God still has a purpose for your life”. The Psalm of Moses reads: Seventy years are given to us! (90:10 NLT). That implies every day after 70 years is a gift from God. My first thought is, “Thank you for another day of life.”
Society has instilled in us boomers that we must strive to remain youthful and avoid showing any signs of aging. The cosmetic industry has created multimillion-dollar businesses based on this belief. Growing older is an honor. The glory of young men is their strength, but the splendor of old men is their gray hair (Pro 20:29). Wisdom is with the aged; and understanding in length of days (Job 12:12).
God has written aging into the codes of our bodies. Our weaknesses will increase in old age. Paul begged God to take away his weakness. God’s reply applies to our old age weaknesses, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness” (2 Corin 12:9 NLT). God calls us to embrace the ongoing aging process with a conviction that a far better existence is yet to come—an eternal spring (Note: Heb 11:13–16).
Sustaining Word For the Week: Read the above Ecclesiastes passage several times this week. Note every phrase and jot down how it applies to you. Think about all the older people God has used.